Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Am I Overreacting?

The other day Boyfriend told me that he stole some computer software online for his business and today his bank account was negative 40 some dollars. Yesterday it was 50 some dollars so someone hacked his bank account and drained about 100 dollars because he kept his information on his computer.

Well today I went on his computer to download some music, and his email was open to an email saying his account was verified, and it was for a porn site. This porn site charged you almost 50 dollars to be a member, but it said he owed nothing, so I'm thinking I just caught him in a lie and he either didn't buy the computer software and he bought this porn instead, or he got both. Well not buy, but stole.

Not only did he become a member of this site, but he became a member of another porn site, which I believe is free. And not too long ago I found porn saved to his phone. Last summer I knew he looked at porn when he didn't see me for awhile, but we live together now, and have for almost a year. Now I just feel like I'm not good enough or something and I don't know what to do.

As soon as he gets home from work, I'm going to confront him about it. Do you think I'm overacting or do I have a right to be pissed?


  1. he deserve the truth

    i've never been a situation like this but seriously i'd rather some1 be honest about their porn habits than lie about it.

  2. You're not overreacting. However I will say that my Hubby and I have lived together for 9+ years now and he still has & watches porn. But, he doesn't hide it or lie about it. That's what I would be pissed off about.

    Good luck with the confrontation.

  3. I don't think you are overreacting at all! I would be very upset but not so much about the fact that he's looking at porn but more that he's LYING to you about looking at porn.

    I would DEFINITELY confront him.

  4. i think you have the right to be upset and to get the truth. i agree with kylie, it doesn't matter that he watches it, but he should admit to it and not hide or lie about it to you.

  5. you're totally not over reacting. just ask him about it.